Absence Makes the Heart . . .
• Long Distance Relationships
My beloved lives on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean. We spend months together then separate.
My love is never forgotten.
But my mental bookmarks for the D/s component of our relationship seem to slip and slide. Distance makes things abstract and the imagination some nights wants to take over. Unmet needs lead to stronger desires, if only in my dreams.
Once we are back together our various roles aren’t that hard to fall back into. And seems to more easily the longer we are together.
Nowadays I do find myself wanting more protocol, rigid rules. That might be a real desire. Or just that I miss what we have when together.
When longing for our exchange of power I fall asleep at night with images of myself on my knees kissing her feet. For me that is the sweetest humility.
Mostly I picture the passionate embraces of her return and holding her in my arms like any other man and his beloved.
As long as our love is strong the kink will take care of itself.
