Asking Her to Listen
• Introducing D/s
Tom Allen continues his excellent series on introducing your D/s inclinations to your wife:
On her end, she decided that if it was that big a part of my life, she would at least invest some time in trying to understand it. To her credit, she didn’t “turn off” or dismiss the web images and readings as sick, perverted, or try to impose some kind of moral judgment on the activities (which she had done in the past). That being said, I also didn’t make any demands on her to do anything more than listen. I told her several times that I wasn’t even sure what I expected from her at this point, I only wanted to tell her what I was feeling and then we’d take it from there.
