Femdom Romance Comments

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Charles
Date: Sep 24, 2011 10:06 AM

I’ve posted to this thread before, and am revisiting it after a particularly brutal beating my wife gave me last night. We just received “vampire gloves” and she first rubbed my genitals bloody before taking me over her knee and spanking me bloody. That was followed by what she said was 700 strokes with a bamboo cane. It broke or there would have been more. It was by far the worst/best torture of my life. This morning, I am thinking about how dreary life was before I met her 17-years-ago and how frustrating it was before I left my vanilla girlfriend 11-years-ago to be with my now sadist wife. Like most, I knew of my “orientation” at the time of puberty, but since my interests are generally considered taboo, life has mainly featured vanilla girlfriends with a few sporadic thrills via sadistic women I have met over the years. Unfortunately, for someone who is only comfortable in a monogamous relationship, these encounters were with promiscuous women and always came to a relatively quick end as a result. I just could not adjust to these on and off affairs. But as miserable as that made me, there was no refuge with vanilla women. At first, I thought I would have to adjust to vanilla to avoid infidelity, but after a while I learned it was just as bad as the promiscuity. For the first time in my life, I cheated with my now wife while still with my vanilla girlfriend. At that time, we were not practicing the sort of domestic violence we do now so there were no lingering marks on my ass. As the years rolled by I began to realize I might not ever be in a truly satisfying relationship; one that would be defined by fidelity AND cruelty. As hard as it was, and after 6 long years of agonizing over this decision, I finally ended the vanilla relationship and entered into a full-time relationship with my sadistic friend. A year later we married. Since then, the pain she inflicted has increased to where we are now; a place I never thought possible. Hell, I never even fantasized about being beaten bloody and neither did my wife when we first got together; it slowly developed over the years. But now, it seems so natural; the way it should be. After all these years, I am finally in, what is for me, the perfect relationship: married to a brutal sadist defined by fidelity. If I did not make that life choice 11-years-ago, I would still be masturbating and miserable. I guess the punch line here is, if you are seriously into this life-style, do not get too deeply involved in a relationship where you will never be fulfilled. It’s not fair to your vanilla friend anymore than it is to yourself. Go the extra mile and find the right person or you may find yourself masturbating your life away instead. What would be the point in that? It may be a long process as it certainly was for me, but is also truly worth the effort. You would not be reading this right now if it was not important. You are here right now because this life-style defines you. You really do not have a choice.

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Erica
Date: Sep 15, 2011 12:05 PM

My husband and I have been married for 12 years! We are both on our second marriage. about a year ago while making love he was whispering in my ear asking me to imagine he was someone else! A Stranger! I remember having the heightened pleasure of our love making just drain from me! He realized it and we sat up and talked about this for a good 2 hours! he took me into his office and had me read real cuckold stories mostly from the wife’s perspective. I felt like I was in a hypnotic state while reading some of these stories yet feeling excited! The next evening he apologized fo upsetting me and he was shocked when I mentioned I might like to try it. I was shocked because he became instantly aroused and hard and even began to masturbate right there as I discussed this. It was about two minutes and he ejaculated all over our dining room rug! I”You really want this don’t you?” I said. he replied “More Than Anything!” It took me a good three months to get the nerve to attempt this. Upon reading the stories I knew what my husbands role is to assist me in getting dressed up and sexy looking! I did just that! Again within minutes he was hard and ejaculated! I began to become extremely wet and excited but nervous. I confided in my best friend and she spoke to her husband about inviting his 26 year old brother to help out! I went over to their home around 7:30PM and no one but Eric was there. Eric is my friends Brother In Law. He felt awkward as well and we talked for about an hour when he leaned toward me and began to kiss me! I was really excited and enjoying this! We spent about 4 hours together and I went home around 12:15AM and my husband had candles lit and no electric lights! The candles led upstairs. When I arrived at our bedroom, there were candles and Champagne and my husband naked and hard. He wanted to know everything in details. As I began to undress and tell him he seemed a bit disturbed but still excited? Now I began to feel guilty when he laid me down and began to orally pleasure me. He basically cleaned me and then we began to make love and he exploded withing what seemed like seconds! We have been a cuckold couple ever since! It works for us and I can imagine it’s not for everyone but it has made our marriage way more exciting on a daily basis!

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Jennii
Date: Aug 25, 2011 8:31 AM

We have been married 32 years. My husband is definitely the dominate in our relationship.He has a small penis and our sex life was unsatisfying for years to both of us. He convinced me to work at strip bars and then prostitution. It was a turn on for him and eventually me. I had to describe everything in detail. If i couldn’t then he was irate. Eventually we starting swinging. He never participated, only videoed for us to watch later together. I could have sex as often as I wanted and who I wanted as long as there was no kissing and I swallowed their cum. He said it was all for me. But he had his conditions. If I didn’t swallow then I was to eat it with a spoon. When I worked in strip bars, I had to tape my phone on so he could hear the conversation in the privacy booth. I cried many times that I wanted the sex to be with him and not someone else, but he said he couldn’t satisfy me. He is not romantic, although he has changed some. 2 years ago there was problems with our son’s marriage, they lived with us, and my husband asked me to temporarily move in with our daughter because he couldn’t deal with my bitching. I told him if I left, I wouldn’t come back. He said oh well. I had to fight my way back and I did. Later he said he could let me walk out after 30 years because he has always thought of me as a whore, not a wife, even when we got married. I guit swinging several times because something always was not to his liking. When we have sex, he gets off by talking about it, me saying that I want it from someone else who is bigger and that he doesn’t satisfy me. He would always call me his whore and say I have to have it.I am tired of him saying I have to have it. Cause I don’t as much as he keeps saying. He wants me to have sex with the yard maintenance guy. When a guy who I did have sex with came over to start my generator when my husband wasn’t home(he’s gone for 2 weeks at t time).He said that I would end up having sex with him too. I said no and his response was ya right. So I told him I no longer wanted to have other partners for sex. I didn’t want to watch the videos, he could but not me. I no longer wanted him to call me a whore or talk about the sex with other men while we were in bed. He told me to decide what I wanted, house, car, etc. that he no longer wanted to be married to me, not to contact him or our son until he contacted me from work (they work together out of state at 2 week intervals). Sex with my husband is me giving him oral and I have a vibrator and dildo. I can’t do this anymore. He says I am addicted to sex but I think he is addicted to me having sex with other men. I don’t know a solution to all of this. When we are around family and friends he treats me like a wife. All around he is really good to me. I am desperately seeking some advice…

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: devoted husband
Date: Aug 22, 2011 6:01 PM

My wife of 30 years and I have a “wife led marriage”, and for the last year and half she has had a lover. (Two actually: the first one was a one time thing). It is sexually exciting and emotionally satisfying for both of us. To be precise, her motive is not to make a “cuckold” of me. It would be more accurate to describe our arrangement as “one sided open marriage”—“open” for her but not for me. This may seem like the stereotypical fantasy, but the other man is better at intercourse than I am. He is younger and he has way more stamina. There is an element of humiliation in this relationship, which does turn me on. But my wife does not do it to humiliate me. Also, I am not involved in my wife’s relationship with the other guy in any way. That’s why I don’t consider myself a “cuckold”, strictly speaking. My wife’s pleasure with the other guy gives me a feeling of joy. We love one another more deeply than ever before.

Romance and Submission

Thu, 05 Mar 2009 06:47:19 -0500

Author: Nick A
Date: Aug 2, 2011 9:43 PM

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Charles
Date: Jul 26, 2011 8:40 AM

Hello guilty sadists! No reason to be. As previously stated by others, there are countless men who would be very happy to be tortured by a woman, no matter what her appearance. For me, the criteria was NEVER a woman’s look, but rather, the potential for sadism. In my younger years, I was a wuss compared to now. What I thought was heavy pain then, is Mickey Mouse compared to now. That came to pass as my then girlfriend, now wife, slowly came to learn she was far more sadistic than original thought. She feared raising the severity of the genital torture and canings would be a turn-off for me. But as she increased the volume slowly, I was on-board all the way. Now, blood routinely drips down my legs after beatings and my genitals are spotted with blood after being tortured with a medical instrument. Beatings have become nearly daily now and my ass is always black and blue, welted and hard. My suggestion to uncertain sadists is first, be absolutely sure you are dealing with a genuine masochist (there really are plenty of genuine male submissives), then talk and act out ever more violence. If there is a corresponding aroused penis, you’re on the right track.

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Richard
Date: Jun 24, 2011 9:11 AM

Its quite normal. My wife is from Colombia, we met in the US and were married for 4 years before i even knew what cuckolding was, she told me one day about the concept and how her cousin cuckolded her husband by sleeping with Jamaican men (the live in Miami), she mentioned it very easy like its not a new concept, i was clearly shocked, but after she slowly brought the thought into my head it wouldn’t leave, she’s a very sexual woman and has an insatiable appetite, we went on holiday one year to visit her cousin who talked openly with the 2 of us about the concept, well one thing led to another and the next thing you know im sitting in the apartment with my wifes cousin watching her perform with a very well hung black man in front of us….ourr sex life has been on fire ever since..i think some people need to open their minds, im 100% straight but simply enjoy my wife’s sexuality and want her to experience all she cam/…this is now a regular escapade for us, we even choose our vacation spots based around it…..its entirely safe and clean of course…just me 2 cents…

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: john
Date: Jun 12, 2011 1:46 AM

Dear miss Bluestocking, The thought of your bluestocking wrapped around my slaveballs with the soles in my mouth is a real turn on for me. That said you need an outlet. I hope you can bring your husband up to speed or find another outlet.

Help! I'm a Cruel Woman!

Sat, 23 May 2009 08:57:20 -0500

Author: zen heliotrope
Date: Jun 12, 2011 1:34 AM

Dear C.W. You’re the one I fear the most and want the most. I’ve been slapped silly and trampled ‘til I shit my pants. But could you draw a line with cbt? What if there were 2 or 3 mercy words. I test my limits sometimes but I want to be able to crawl of and lick my wounds if you don’t. Maybe you could dial it down by spitting on your sub and cursing him. Or make a video for later. Just a thought.

For Wives & Girlfriends Who Don't Want to Dominate

Mon, 16 Jul 2007 14:41:44 -0500

Author: wife's-wimp
Date: May 15, 2011 1:28 AM

roo-roo i beg to differ…i get COMPLETELY turned on physically by doing laundry and every other little housework task there is to do.. The humiliation of tolling around the house while My wife lounges or is out… ummfff…It’s a TOTAL turn on for me

Help! I'm a Cruel Woman!

Sat, 23 May 2009 08:57:20 -0500

Author: Laura
Date: Apr 19, 2011 9:37 PM
URL: http://romanceandbondage.blogspot.com/

Is this a problem for women really? From what I keep hearing from men they claim they can’t find a woman who is hard enough on them. Hearing this only makes me wonder if they have ever experienced the reality. Really getting smacked is so much different (on so many levels) than just thinking you would like a woman to smack you. For myself, I have only been harder when I am angry. However, if I were angry I would be less likely to Dom then. Too easy for something to go wrong. Also, when I am angry I want to be alone versus taking it out on anyone or even talking to anyone.

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: jerr45fl
Date: Apr 11, 2011 4:08 PM

my wife and i first did this in 1964, we have never looked back…At the time there really wasnt a name for what we did, she had sex with other men and i only had sex with her. She could have had many men chose to have a few men a lot..her choice..It was very good for both of us…We are still married and love each other still. She is the head of the house but dosent hold me back much, I love to do things for her and try to make her happy…Heel what more can you ask for, Iam sure if we could do it all over we wouldnt change a thing…

Can Your Turn Your Wife Into a Dominatrix?

Sat, 21 Jan 2012 15:38:06 -0500

Author: domme50
Date: Apr 10, 2011 11:24 PM

I have tried a number of times to get my wife to DOM me. I gave her permission to do anything! I bought a CB6K, which we use now and then for short periods. I bought anything I thought might help. Nothing!!!!! Suggestions? I’m not sure I can keep up the kiss, suck, lick, fuck and orgasm game much longer.

Help! I'm a Cruel Woman!

Sat, 23 May 2009 08:57:20 -0500

Author: Yaccov
Date: Mar 26, 2011 4:33 AM

Ilove a cruel dominating women

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Plush
Date: Mar 24, 2011 2:11 AM

I believe it to be more real and prevalent than thought of! I have been hearing much more and reading much more about it. My niece now 24 and hot! She has been married almost 4 years when she tells me on the sly that her husband is cuckolded by her. My niece and I are very close and confide in one another. She states she has been cuckolding him for 2 years and everything has been as good as ever until she started having feelings for her lover! She is also pregnant by him! I told her she better tell him and soon! I’e yet to hear the results! She told me there are quite a few couples experimenting in this lifestyle with the male usually feminized! What is happening to the male population?

Feminization and Infidelity

Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:11:51 -0500

Author: chuckie
Date: Mar 22, 2011 3:43 PM

These are such exciting fantasies. I would like to be forced into them.

Romance and Submission

Thu, 05 Mar 2009 06:47:19 -0500

Author: wasioclaish
Date: Mar 10, 2011 4:00 AM

Have any girls in here lost at strip poker and ended up in bra and pantys,how did you feel?, was it embarassing?

Sweet BDSM

Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:57:02 -0500

Author: yaccov
Date: Feb 25, 2011 12:59 PM

I love to be dominated by women it is a turn on all the time, the bigger the heal the beter the turn on

Feminization and Infidelity

Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:11:51 -0500

Author: beth
Date: Feb 23, 2011 9:53 PM

my life as a sissy in similar,but it was my mistress who wanted to get me into forced bi.i am not into it at all but i do it because i love her.i was eased into it slowly but now i regularly have full no holds barred sex with a man to please her and he is kind of my ‘boyfriend’ for want of a better term.i still love being a sissy and i wouldnt change a thing.

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Tobyann
Date: Jan 23, 2011 11:58 PM

Hello everyone. I’ve been researching cuckolding but everywhere I go I get more confused. My husband and I have been together for 19 years and we now have an open relationship. We used to be swingers but unfortunately the dynamics of getting 4 people to like each other sexually is not as easy at it sounds. We’ve been entirely open for two and a half years now and our relationship is better than it has EVER been. But over the last year or so, while we’re having sex or talking about our fantasies, he tells me he wants me to cuckold him. The way he explains it to me is, whether he is in the room with my lover and I watching, or I go to my lovers place, when it is just the two of us having sex, e wants me to cuckold him, as he calls it. Rubbing it in his face that my lover is better than you in bed, bigger, gives me climaxes that hubby could never give me, etc…. Many other things also. But it stops there. What I’ve been reading and hearing is that cuckolding is not what I just explained. That is is all encompassing: daily routine, with hardcore Dom and Sub roles chores, so many other things. I do not shock easily and am one of the most open-minded, accepting regardless of who you are, person, but some things I read were quite disconcerting. So, does Cuckolding have different levels?From soft to hard core? Or is what he is asking me to do something else entirely? (which I enjoy doing to him very much!) Now that my eyes have been opened to this lifestyle, I would like to prepare myself if he does want to eventually take the next step. Thanks everyone!

Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Tobyann
Date: Jan 23, 2011 5:19 PM

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: bootlicker
Date: Jan 10, 2011 5:03 PM

The “vanilla-FLR” arrangement seems to have all the disadvantages and none of the advantages — for botht parties, I respectfully suggest. The masochist male is denied the pleasure of submitting to pain as a way to show his devotion, and denied the catharsis of physical suffering. The Female is denied the catharsis of taking a whip to the male who has displeased Her, instead of just sulking or fretting about his short-comings (!) and not “getting it out of Her system.” She also misses the sensual pleasure of a male tongue caressing Her in eager fear of Her whip. Both parties cannot enjoy the excitement of role-playing and danger that is part of a good BDSM scene. It seems a pity to do all the work without the rewards.

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Joanna Lark
Date: Nov 28, 2010 2:48 PM
URL: http://www.joannalark.com/blog

Allison I am sure there is plenty of man waiting for a good beating by bigger lady. Why don’t you register on one of the platforms for BBW (big beautiful woman)? Just be honest about yourself and reveal your sadistic needs at the start…

Talking to Your Wife / Girlfriend About Femdom

Sun, 18 Dec 2011 17:15:00 -0500

Author: Aayaan
Date: Aug 7, 2010 10:31 AM

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Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:51:00 -0500

Author: Richard
Date: Jul 28, 2010 4:50 AM

You’ve been very sweet and kind to your husband. If he is so selfish that he will continue to try to force you to cuckolding him even though that will cause you emotional pain then he isn’t a good husband. Just tell him no and to butch up and be a man about it. If he doesn’t care about your feelings then you are in a bad marriage.