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Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Rune
Date: Feb 13, 2010 1:15 PM

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Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Miss Blue Stocking
Date: Jan 30, 2010 2:28 AM

Thank You, Richard. I suppose that will happen sooner or later (break-up) I’d just rather it happen later.

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Richard
Date: Jan 26, 2010 7:48 AM

Many sadists and masochists have had to face this: being married or in a committed relationship with a vanilla partner. Some people work it out so that they can play with third party. Do the kinky stuff by nothing conventionally sexual or affectionate. But most often the need for full self-expression, personal fulfillment leads to divorce or break-up.

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Miss Blue Stocking
Date: Jan 26, 2010 6:47 AM

Hello, I ama 27 year old closeted sadist/domme and I think I’m going to crack soon. I go through these highs and lows when I talk to men online who actually enjoy me and want to meet. But then I get sad and angry at my husband; “Why can’t he want me this way?” I love my husband, but he wasn’t honest about his limitations when we got married and assumed I would figure it out on my own, which I did. I suppose my only question is; What to do? I don’t know how much longer I can continue being in a situation like this (which I realize is my fault for thinking I could change him) I don’t know whether I want to scream while biting nails in two or just curl up and sob because the love of my life isn’t really for me after all. Anybody else going through this?

Feminization and Infidelity

Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:11:51 -0500

Author: Mistress Laura's Boy
Date: Dec 31, 2009 3:17 PM
URL: http://laurastoy.blogspot.com/

Most of the problems with this kind of thing can be avoided by delving more into fantasy and less into reality. For example, my Mistress wife has recently gotten into dressing me up and caning me and then fucking my ass with a strap-on, while telling me that it’s her big boyfriend who’s really fucking me, and don’t I really like his big cock in my ass? In the middle of such a session, my mind is far gone and she and I are in our own fantasy-world…

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: Meg
Date: Nov 16, 2009 12:51 AM

Macbeth and kit, if your wives likes you being macho, that’s between you and them, but that’s no reason to go around calling women who can take care of themselves in basic ways “abnormal”. Women are not biologically incapable of using a screwdriver, and holding/comforting people is, in our society, considered nurturing and feminine, not protecting and masculine. I agree that a man who agrees all the time is boring and undesirable, but so is a man who thinks I’m too stupid to set a mousetrap just because I have a vagina.

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Frank
Date: Nov 5, 2009 12:56 AM

I like women/ female sadists. cause me pain and let me look at you…mmmmmmm

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: Richard
Date: Oct 20, 2009 2:08 PM

Have you told her that you want this? If you did what was her response?

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: John Nolin
Date: Oct 20, 2009 1:36 PM

I get turned on doing things for my wife.She likes it a lot. We have been married for 27 years and really has always been the boss. I have never said “no” to her. She is reasonable, loveing, but the boss. I want to take this a step further. My 4” penis does not give her orgasms. We have sex, only when she wants to about 5 times a year. Sometimes I just masturbate on her breasts. If we do have intercourse my 4” cums in 10 seconds. I want to be her slave and she can have a lover for sex if she wants. Any suggestion on how to help her along to take me?

Help! I'm a Cruel Woman!

Sat, 23 May 2009 08:57:20 -0500

Author: billy
Date: Aug 21, 2009 8:21 PM
URL: http://www.myspace.com/billyinc1

Ladies should not feel guilty at all for enjoying themselves it is only natural for the male to please the female. When the male ceases to be of benefit to the Lady then it is time for him to be replaced in the relationship.

Exemplary

Wed, 11 Feb 2009 07:06:14 -0500

Author: liljonboy
Date: Jul 10, 2009 11:45 AM

I am in a female-led relationship and we are very happy couple.

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: hotsexwu6969
Date: May 23, 2009 5:06 PM

There are not only women who are turned on by seeing a man suffer. There are also men that can’t live without the pain and suffering. So it’s natural, simply said.

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Richard
Date: May 23, 2009 3:15 AM

How nice for you. You do realize this is a note about women becoming comfortable with their own sexuality?

Guilty Female Sadists

Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:05:53 -0500

Author: Spaceman
Date: May 23, 2009 12:53 AM

I want to experience this… i’m getting hard thinking about a woman beating me….

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: kit
Date: May 11, 2009 3:09 PM

Feminization and Infidelity

Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:11:51 -0500

Author: SissyNYC
Date: May 8, 2009 1:34 PM

I’m sorry her fantasies got out front of yours. But hers aren’t that uncommon among us “forced” femme devotees. The difference, of course, is learning that while out interests (really, fetishes) are important, in a female led relationship they should become all but irrelevant. That’s far more easy to say than to do, obviously - but you get the idea. The rest of the relationship sounds dreamy…

Friend, Girlfriend, Mistress

Thu, 19 Oct 2006 10:46:43 -0500

Author: Omer
Date: Apr 2, 2009 12:08 PM

I so totally agree with these last statements of treating ur man like a human.. women tend to go so far beyond limits n a caring man would just play along :(.. they need to show their side of affection, if they r given power abuse it in the right way.. hope i wasnt offensive to anyone :(

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: Macbeth
Date: Mar 20, 2009 5:13 PM

This is where the rubber really meets the road! This goes back to my belief that the stories you read on the internet are only that..just stories. It is in our DNA for a woman to look to a man for protection. Of course it’s entirely different today than 6M years ago or whatever. So I believe that in our modernized version of civilization MOST women feel safer with a big honkin’ man around. So I agree with RooRoo on this. There has to be a balance in a FLR. I LOVE serving my wife but I’m still a man and if I think she is into something that is not good for her, I’m going to let her know about it. It’s definitely a fine line that a male sub has to walk. (Normal) women don’t want some sniveling little pantywaist man around all the time. If we were all like that then cuckolding would quickly become the norm! So, again, it’s all about communication. You need to know when she needs a “real man” around to hold her and comfort her and be her “protector.” And when she just wants her little slave boy to do her nails. Think about it. Be your own person when you need to and don’t hide behind her skirt 24/7. She’ll throw you away like yesterday’s garbage.

Still Girls and Boys

Sun, 08 Mar 2009 18:48:36 -0500

Author: Macbeth
Date: Mar 19, 2009 11:13 PM

Now you’re talking my language.I don’t think any “normal” person (man) would ever want to give over TOTAL control of his entire life to someone else. That’s not who we are. But I do agree that it is nice to have someone else initiate the action most of the time at least. On the other side of that coin, my feeling is that while a dominant woman will want to initiate sex or play most of the time, deep down, they still want to know they are wanted by their man enough for him to initiate loving at times. Maybe if she is feeling bad about something that happened at work or just in her personal life. We all need that special someone there for us outside of the D/s relationship…someone that loves and respects us for the person we are deep down inside.

Always Let Her Have Her Way

Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:22:10 -0500

Author: roo-roo
Date: Mar 8, 2009 11:38 AM
URL: http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com

“You are in a FLR, however she defines it.” This is another way of saying that subs should never have desires of their own, or that our needs aren’t important. Pure unrealistic propaganda. Besides, many women would leave a man who showed no spine. Someone who always agrees with everything is boring.

Exemplary

Wed, 11 Feb 2009 07:06:14 -0500

Author: Dev
Date: Feb 22, 2009 5:05 AM
URL: http://devastatingyet.wordpress.com/

Aww! :-)

Sweet BDSM

Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:57:02 -0500

Author: roo-roo
Date: Feb 11, 2009 8:23 PM
URL: http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com

I agreed right up until, “a submissive should be looking for ways to sweep their partner off their feet, both in and out of scene�” That runs both ways: regardless of gender or d/s position, both people should be sweeping each other off their feet. Romance is not the exclusive responsibility of subs or of men. I do enjoy casual play. While it’s fun, it’s not fulfilling like it is in the context of a relationship.

Sweet BDSM

Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:57:02 -0500

Author: femdom-blog
Date: Feb 11, 2009 6:58 PM
URL: http://www.femdom-blog org

I have always been the submissive but have to say that dominating does turn me on now and again

Foot Rubs & Cuddling

Wed, 18 Oct 2006 09:21:31 -0500

Author: John
Date: Jan 31, 2009 4:30 AM

How to train a man to be a good slave husband (Slave husband training) Men are basically grown up child and they always need control, domination and spanking from time to time to keep them to behave and live happily. Any woman who want to make her husband as slave must dominate him completely .To dominate slave husband a dominate woman must laid down the rules and slave husband must obey the rule .If tries to disobey then Wife must punish him mercilessly and tears must be in his eyes and he should beg you to stop spanking and should commit that if will not commit the same mistake again. If your slave obey the rule as it is then maintenance spanking must be given to him from time to time to remind him who is the boss of family. Fact is, once you sexually arouse a man, he’ll turn circus tricks for the privilege of a ride on his queen’s throne. By exploiting this fact — and tempting him and teasing him with sexy suggestiveness, you can have him on his knees begging you to allow him to kiss your feet, wait on you, clean for you, satisfy you sexually, even humiliate himself for you, if need be. The possibilities are endless. For men go absolutely gaga when confronted with a take-charge woman. Sexually aggressive women get what they want in life from their men, and that goes way beyond the bedroom. Making your man beg for your good graces makes him even more aroused, more beholden to your charms, and (best of all) more willing to do your bidding. Here are some ideas, to help you tease and tantalize him, until he’s willing to do anything you want him to do. Try this routine with him tonight and you’ll own him — mind, body and soul — as of tomorrow morning! Invite him up to your bedroom and undress him — while you stand before him in your sexiest outfit. Ask him if he’s been a “good boy” for you as you run your fingernails between his thighs. Ask him to kneel down to rub your tired feet. Then tell him that he may kiss them if he wishes to. Allow him to kiss your feet, all the way up your legs, to the crux of your thighs, a part of your anatomy, which will now be referred to as his “place of privilege.” Stroke his hair and ask him if he’s “earned his place.” Turn around and have him give your bottom a smooch, to demonstrate his sincerity. Tie his hands behind his back with a silken scarf. Then have him attempt to undress you with his mouth/teeth. If he slobbers, give him a playful smack across the face. He mustn’t muss his lady! By the way: Don’t let him touch or otherwise arouse himself. That’s what those beautifully manicured fingernails of yours are for! Use them to keep him aroused. Now have him take his place at your feet while you read a romance novel or watch a sexy movie. Keep him occupied with a peek at your panties. Once you’re in the mood, ask him if he’d like to “kiss his queen’s throne.” Meanwhile, keep him teased and aroused with your toes. Make sure he has a big stiff, but only touch it when he needs prodding. Bring him to the brink, but don’t let him release! Use this opportunity to manipulate him deeper into his submissive role. Make him confess his fetishistic desires and proclaim his adulation for you. Avail him to your now-musky panty crotch. Allow him to sniff it. Ask him if he’d like to kiss it. Tell him that if he’d like to cross your panty threshold into the gates of paradise, he’s going to have to compose an impromptu “Ode To His Lady’s Lair.” (If the quality of his verse is abysmal, make him stand on his head and say a nursery rhyme). Allow him to remove your panties with his teeth. Then pull his face toward your lair. Tell him to “kiss” and “lick” on your command. Issue these commands as if you were training a pup. You are! If he disobeys you, gag him with your panties and make him nuzzle you with his nose. When his session of oral servitude is complete to your supreme satisfaction, escort him to your four-poster. Push him down on his back and tie his legs to the bedposts. Straddle him. Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss your breasts. Hover over him. Get close enough for him to suckle your nipples, and then pull away. Slap his face. Make him beg. Turn around and avail him to your bottom. Allow him to kiss your cheeks as you pinch and tickle his joystick. Make him reach with the tip of his tongue to taste the fruit between your legs. Ask him if he’s ready to assume the role of your “Personal Ass Kisser” for life. Let him audition for the role. Tell him that whether you make love to him that night depends on the lust and eagerness he exhibits in worshipping your nether hole. By this time, he should be ready to explode. So, naturally you’ll want to take a break. Retire to the kitchen for a glass of wine, leaving him to ponder more ways in which he can please his new boss. Drape your moist paints over his face, to give him something to inspire him. When you return, give him a rousing massage between his legs, to stoke those fires within his loins and always piss into his mouth and spank him if he drops piss on the ground. Verbal stimulation is often very effective, tell him things you might do to reward him, tease him with ideas you know he’d enjoy, threaten to humiliate him if he doesn’t satisfy you. Then grab your riding crop, straddle his hips and take that young buck of yours for the ride of your lives! Here are some ideas that will keep hubby attentive, while keeping you blissfully entertained. 1. Have him pamper you. Make him… - Give you a foot/back/full body massage - give you a pedicure/manicure, - paint your finger/toe nails. - Bathe you/shave your legs. - Cook and serve you a nice dinner. 2. Make him hand-launder your panties and lingerie. 3. Make him polish your pumps with his tongue. 4. Make him do the housework: naked, but for his “Hubby” apron and his rubber gloves! 5. Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash; Here pooch…. Heel! Beg! Roll over…good hubby! 6. Make him earn his rewards 7. Spank him 5 times for each minute it takes him to make you climax. 8. Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until you give him permission. When you give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as you want) 9. Always make him lick you clean after sex. 10. When you go out, order him to be kneeling at the door for you when you arrive. Give him plenty of chores to do while you’re gone. Punishments: If he’s not performing to your satisfaction, or you just feel the need to assert yourself… Spank him severe daily to remind him who is the in charge. (Wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping-pong paddle.) Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet. Deny him orgasms for a long period of time (days, weeks?). Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for sissy panties/lingerie. 5.Call your close friend , your Sister , his Sister and humiliate and spank him in presence of them .Also allow them to spank him. Try this: after work tonight, tells hubby to pour you a glass of wine and give you a foot massage. Then let one of your stocking feet worms it’s way between his knees. In just a few seconds, you’re going to have a completely compliant man on your hands. Have fun with your power over him! Once you’re comfortable calling the shots, you’ll feel as if you’d been doing it for years. And, believe it or not, he’s going to love it, too!

Too Much Power Exchange

Sat, 15 Sep 2007 15:57:07 -0500

Author: Richard
Date: Jan 9, 2009 1:34 PM

Howard, The real question is: Is it an appropriate level of action. If not, how should it be changed and by what means.