The Newly Dominant Woman's Puzzle
» Introducing D/s
You’ve discovered that dominating men is something you enjoy. Perhaps feel you need to do. How, you wonder, should you go about being a dominant woman.
That depends on you. As an individual you will evolve your own habits and style.
Clothing:
- Dress up in fetish wear
- Jeans and a t-shirt
- A pretty dress
Venue
- Play parties
- Your home
- His home
Submissive Men
- Serial hookups
- Men you like
- Men you love
Fitting F/m Into Your Life
- 27/7, Lifestyle
- Only during explicit BDSM sessions
- Informal, fades in and out
And there are many other possibilities. Don’t let someone sell you on being who you aren’t.
Some women are dominant without being sadistic. Others are pure female sadists who enjoy inflicting pain but don’t care for Mistress/slave roles.
At the beginning your guide is what you think and fantasize about. Over time your habits and practices will be shaped by what you have discovered actually gives you the most satisfaction.
Rather than worrying about being perfect at the very beginning, just relax and enjoy the ride.
