Too Much Power Exchange
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The tendency for many of us is to try to figure out how to add more kink and fetish to our lives. It doesn’t hurt to remember: sometime is too much.
From an entry by Psyche:
He was feeling that we were too sceney and never really out of character. He’s never been a 24/7 type, and finds this difficult. Apparently this realisation just hit him, out of the blue, while I was domming.
I can see why this bothers him. Reflecting on what he said, it’s true. Since I now live with another kinky couple, who have a D/s situation running pretty constantly, I’ve been acting up to a similar level. My communal house-space has got very kink-heavy, and Cupid is finding it oppressive.
Comments
Wait, are you saying that we shouldn’t all be obsessed with d/s? Such blasphemy!
The “more is better” approach many people use toward d/s can be annoying. They often think that if you’re not always striving to be more submissive (or dominant) then you’re “just playing a game”.
Posted by: roo-roo | September 16, 2007 10:51 AM
Howard,
The real question is:
Is it an appropriate level of action. If not, how should it be changed and by what means.
Posted by: Richard | January 9, 2009 1:34 PM