Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him

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You’ve come to dominate your husband, perhaps in a playful way or maybe you’ve taken control of all the basics of the marriage (or partner if not legally wed). It seems to be going OK when he suddenly presents you with an unexpected wish.

Your husband (lover) wants you to have sex with another man.

You are deeply shocked. Maybe you can see it as a spicy fantasy but you don’t want, are repelled by the idea of sex with a stranger, sex outside of your relationship.

In a demented effort to validate his desire he shows you blogs by men who write of being cuckolded by their wives (most often called “Mistress Wife”).

Many of those blogs by supposedly submissive men are fiction. Fake. Phony. The cuckoldry described never actually happened.

Because so few women wish to “cheat” on their partner even with his consent cuckoldry is one of the least acted out femdom fetishes. If you scan many you’ll see the scenario often develops according to the common clichés of the genre:

The Femdom Cuckold Stereotype

  • The man describes himself as sexually inadequate.
  • Very often he says he has a small penis and that prevents him from satisfying his wife.
  • She decides that he doesn’t deserve sex and locks his penis up in a chastity device.
  • She makes him were some of her lingerie.
  • Eventually he is required to dress up as a girl, most often as a ‘sissymaid.’(Feminization, sissyfication seems a frequent theme.)
  • Wife cuckolds husband.
  • Her lover - often called a “bull” - meets and mocks husband.
  • Husband is required to lick his semen from his wife’s vagina.
  • Husband is forced to perform oral sex on bull.

The violent emotional forces at work explain why so many femdom cuckoldry blogs are lies.

Possible Causes of Cuckold Fantasies

  • The man desires much deeper humiliation than the wife will allow.
  • Some sort of gender dysphoria confuses the man.
  • The man is latently bisexual.

Unable to live his desires the man creates a fictional reality in a blog and on forums. Not uncommonly he writes as the cuckolding female.

Some men actually push their wife into doing this. Divorce is often the result. In many cases because the man is so deeply wounded when it really happens.

There really are F/m couples that practice cuckolding successfully. They are rare. And both the man and the woman have considerable emotional maturity and trust.

Many women come to despise the man that asks for this. Some wives leave their husband because knowing he wants this is intolerable.

This is one of those rare cases where a kink does require a counselor.

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Hubby wanted to see me with a younger virile black man and I agreed to it and I finally decided to cuck him in order for me to enjoy fully my new hotwife status and my new black lovers.

Hi,

We are a long term very happily married couple (16 years) with a toddler in the house. We have always been a Femdom couple, very sex positive and adventurous. We maintain a Female Led Household and cuckolding has been a fun and hot aspect of our play. It doesn’t dominate our lives nor has it had any adverse effects on us. Rather it has made our sex life fun and hot.

We agree that a couple needs to be extraordinarily close and secure in order for this kink to work. But for us it does.

Please feel free to drop by our blog where we try to talk honestly about how we fit this into our life. We try not to be preachy. We’re certainly no authority on anything. We just try to tell it as we live it.

Best,

scott Mrs. Kelly’s Playhouse

My wife and I live a very successful Female Led Relationship where she cuckolds me and I am kept in chastity. However it does take a special relationship in which there is complete trust and understanding of both parties. Before we were Mistress and slave we were already players. She has always enjoyed having sex with many different men and women so this seemed a natural path when we started a FLR household. I really don’t think it is as rare as you indicate. We have met a fair number of people who are also into either a cuckold or hotwife relationship where the wife enjoys multiple partners while the husband stays faithful.

M

Scott,

I actually do know there are couples like you and Mrs. Kelly. It takes very rare psychological stability to do what the two of you do.

M,

I think you may be dealing with a self-selected sample population. Most people can barely manage conventional marriages.

Funny how people who can’t understand other peoples choices have to demean them. I enjoy being with other men. What’s not natural is being with one person your whole life. Men have had the option of multiple partners since the beginning of time, we (women) are just now enjoying that freedom not being held by the earning capability of men. I love my husband, and he’s the perfect man for me, but I, like him, enjoy other members of the opposite sex. I got married for love, not taken prisoner by a jealous insecure hypocrite who cheats on the side.

I am definatly the head of our home, I make all the financial decisions and have the final say in most aspects of oue life. My wife is not submissive and we discuss all things defor I decide what we will do and most time her imput will sway my decission. I think that makes us the average family. We are a second marrage and befor I met her she had many lovers, she enjoyed the sexal differances of the men she slept with. I didnt know it at the time but I am a cuckold, after discusing (pillow talk style) our likes needs we decided she could continue seeing other men. I am free to see woman but prefer to help her, I dont get involved other than to suport her and I find that satisfies me. Out side that we have a normal healthy relationship.

Grahame

Hi my wife was forever being desired by other men and after 10 years of marriage I found when she flirted I was increditably turned on ,she arrange or set me up with a young woman an of course caught me in the act ,I was then told it was “tit for tat” she then got all dressed for a night out and I had to watch, she left the house and I was so horny it was crazy when she came back I was waiting in bed naked with a rock hard cock she told me in detail what had happened an watched as I jerked off all the time ,she was so excited by this she asked if I wanted her to do it again, from then on I became a cuckold ,we always enjoyed fantastic sex after, just us two an got real pleasure talking about in foreplay, in the end we had a long term lover an yes sometime it was a threesome , we talked about me having another fem but agreed for us it wouldn’t work as I was turned on by her being pleasured but she’d be jealousy of me doing it with another woman Dave

My wife loves the cuckold fantasy. I tell her all the time about her stud doing her while I pleasure her with my hand. I give her awsum orgasms and she is very happy. I seldum penetrate her. I tell her I am her slave. I am now encouraging her to humiliate me more by calling my dinky and sometimes only she gets to cum or I might have to go to the bathroom by myself to relieve myself. I am amazed how well she takes to this fantasy. She rejected all my others involving bondage or punishment. I have also told her I would buy her a tummy tuck and get her implants for her to show to her stud. She loves it!

My name is Karen, and a little about me and my house hold. I am a dominant woman with a cuckold husband who has been wearing a chastity belt for as long as we been married. He has never entered my pussy, and never will. My husband also has never been allowed to cum. I have 4 kids of my one, and knocked up with a 5th. All of my kids are from different men. I have two boys and two girls. The boys are trained to be obedient to their sisters and women in general. My husband is trained to be obedient to me, my daughters and other women. My husband and sons wear diapers. My oldest son, 14, has been wearing a chastity belt since his 11th birthday, and he has never masturbate or had an orgasm. My 14yo son, is a cross-dresser, as well as my 8yo son. My 11yo daughter is an exhibitionist, and I consider her the school whore. My 4yo daughter is spoiled by having her dad or brothers do things for her. If any readier has any
questions, email me at ilikeyou_2468@yahoo.com, Karen

I think this cuckolding business is bullshit. There must be serious troubles in marriage, if husband wants his wife acting like a bitch. But women with backbone don’t go for it. These “she-male husbands” needs psychiatric help. If husband really love his wife he can satisfied her sexually. The third popart can easily ruining the marriage. Practice hardcore sex with your own wife. Love is better than humiliation and creampies.

I’ve been attempting to get my wife to cuckold me for quite some time. I am 40 and she is 31. She has at times said, ok, but then as we go any further at all, she says no. She is worried that what if she is with another guy and has feelings for him, she will leave me. I think this is a legitimate concern for her, but not for me I’m thinking. I’m not sure what to do to go any further. Any advice?

I have been the “other guy” in two couples cuckold married lives and in both cases the couples have seemed to be very close and initmate, and very loving toward each other.

I’m no expert, but from my own experiences, this kind of relationship can work. All I ever did was have sex with the wives whenever the couples felt like they needed this sort of fantasy acted out. None of them ever regretted it. It became a normal way of life for all concerned.

One wife told me that she felt like I was a permanent part of her and her husband’s married and sexual life and would miss me if anything ever changed. I still see this couple from time to time (maybe 4 times a year), but it works for them and I’m happy to help keep their marriage intact.

I’m sure 90 percent of the stuff you read about cuckoldry is just fantasy and fiction, but this is all true. I have no reason to lie about it. Good luck to anyone considering this lifestyle. Just be absolutely certain you can handle in before hand. Tread very slowly and it just might work for you too.

I’m a 58 year old woman married 35 years. Four years ago my when my controling head of the household husband mentioned cuckold I didn’t know what it meant. When he explained it I was floored. Now four years later I have sex on a regular basis with a wonderful lover. My husband has since become very submissive. I now run the household and him. We no longer have intercourse together and haven’t for two years, the fact that he will never penetrate me again always excites him and he climaxes within moments of cuddling up to me. Everybody has their own opinion but cuckolding has made our marriage better than ever.

My husband is into Cuckold and I’m not, though I’ve been pretending that I have been for the last 6 years, we’ve been together 8 years. I make up stories and he believes them, well he did until a pic that I faked was awful quality and he realised I got it from the net. Anyway now he says the next time has to be real and I can’t do it! How can I tell him? I’ve kept this secret so long and it’s going to crush him.

You’ve been very sweet and kind to your husband.

If he is so selfish that he will continue to try to force you to cuckolding him even though that will cause you emotional pain then he isn’t a good husband.

Just tell him no and to butch up and be a man about it. If he doesn’t care about your feelings then you are in a bad marriage.

Hello everyone. I’ve been researching cuckolding but everywhere I go I get more confused. My husband and I have been together for 19 years and we now have an open relationship. We used to be swingers but unfortunately the dynamics of getting 4 people to like each other sexually is not as easy at it sounds. We’ve been entirely open for two and a half years now and our relationship is better than it has EVER been.

But over the last year or so, while we’re having sex or talking about our fantasies, he tells me he wants me to cuckold him. The way he explains it to me is, whether he is in the room with my lover and I watching, or I go to my lovers place, when it is just the two of us having sex, e wants me to cuckold him, as he calls it. Rubbing it in his face that my lover is better than you in bed, bigger, gives me climaxes that hubby could never give me, etc…. Many other things also. But it stops there.

What I’ve been reading and hearing is that cuckolding is not what I just explained. That is is all encompassing: daily routine, with hardcore Dom and Sub roles chores, so many other things. I do not shock easily and am one of the most open-minded, accepting regardless of who you are, person, but some things I read were quite disconcerting.

So, does Cuckolding have different levels?From soft to hard core? Or is what he is asking me to do something else entirely? (which I enjoy doing to him very much!) Now that my eyes have been opened to this lifestyle, I would like to prepare myself if he does want to eventually take the next step.

Thanks everyone!

Hello everyone. I’ve been researching cuckolding but everywhere I go I get more confused. My husband and I have been together for 19 years and we now have an open relationship. We used to be swingers but unfortunately the dynamics of getting 4 people to like each other sexually is not as easy at it sounds. We’ve been entirely open for two and a half years now and our relationship is better than it has EVER been.

But over the last year or so, while we’re having sex or talking about our fantasies, he tells me he wants me to cuckold him. The way he explains it to me is, whether he is in the room with my lover and I watching, or I go to my lovers place, when it is just the two of us having sex, e wants me to cuckold him, as he calls it. Rubbing it in his face that my lover is better than you in bed, bigger, gives me climaxes that hubby could never give me, etc…. Many other things also. But it stops there.

What I’ve been reading and hearing is that cuckolding is not what I just explained. That is is all encompassing: daily routine, with hardcore Dom and Sub roles chores, so many other things. I do not shock easily and am one of the most open-minded, accepting regardless of who you are, person, but some things I read were quite disconcerting.

So, does Cuckolding have different levels?From soft to hard core? Or is what he is asking me to do something else entirely? (which I enjoy doing to him very much!) Now that my eyes have been opened to this lifestyle, I would like to prepare myself if he does want to eventually take the next step.

Thanks everyone!

I believe it to be more real and prevalent than thought of! I have been hearing much more and reading much more about it. My niece now 24 and hot! She has been married almost 4 years when she tells me on the sly that her husband is cuckolded by her. My niece and I are very close and confide in one another. She states she has been cuckolding him for 2 years and everything has been as good as ever until she started having feelings for her lover! She is also pregnant by him! I told her she better tell him and soon! I’e yet to hear the results! She told me there are quite a few couples experimenting in this lifestyle with the male usually feminized! What is happening to the male population?

my wife and i first did this in 1964, we have never looked back…At the time there really wasnt a name for what we did, she had sex with other men and i only had sex with her. She could have had many men chose to have a few men a lot..her choice..It was very good for both of us…We are still married and love each other still. She is the head of the house but dosent hold me back much, I love to do things for her and try to make her happy…Heel what more can you ask for, Iam sure if we could do it all over we wouldnt change a thing…

Its quite normal. My wife is from Colombia, we met in the US and were married for 4 years before i even knew what cuckolding was, she told me one day about the concept and how her cousin cuckolded her husband by sleeping with Jamaican men (the live in Miami), she mentioned it very easy like its not a new concept, i was clearly shocked, but after she slowly brought the thought into my head it wouldn’t leave, she’s a very sexual woman and has an insatiable appetite, we went on holiday one year to visit her cousin who talked openly with the 2 of us about the concept, well one thing led to another and the next thing you know im sitting in the apartment with my wifes cousin watching her perform with a very well hung black man in front of us….ourr sex life has been on fire ever since..i think some people need to open their minds, im 100% straight but simply enjoy my wife’s sexuality and want her to experience all she cam/…this is now a regular escapade for us, we even choose our vacation spots based around it…..its entirely safe and clean of course…just me 2 cents…

My wife of 30 years and I have a “wife led marriage”, and for the last year and half she has had a lover. (Two actually: the first one was a one time thing). It is sexually exciting and emotionally satisfying for both of us.

To be precise, her motive is not to make a “cuckold” of me. It would be more accurate to describe our arrangement as “one sided open marriage”—“open” for her but not for me.

This may seem like the stereotypical fantasy, but the other man is better at intercourse than I am. He is younger and he has way more stamina.

There is an element of humiliation in this relationship, which does turn me on. But my wife does not do it to humiliate me. Also, I am not involved in my wife’s relationship with the other guy in any way. That’s why I don’t consider myself a “cuckold”, strictly speaking.

My wife’s pleasure with the other guy gives me a feeling of joy. We love one another more deeply than ever before.

We have been married 32 years. My husband is definitely the dominate in our relationship.He has a small penis and our sex life was unsatisfying for years to both of us. He convinced me to work at strip bars and then prostitution. It was a turn on for him and eventually me. I had to describe everything in detail. If i couldn’t then he was irate. Eventually we starting swinging. He never participated, only videoed for us to watch later together. I could have sex as often as I wanted and who I wanted as long as there was no kissing and I swallowed their cum. He said it was all for me. But he had his conditions. If I didn’t swallow then I was to eat it with a spoon. When I worked in strip bars, I had to tape my phone on so he could hear the conversation in the privacy booth. I cried many times that I wanted the sex to be with him and not someone else, but he said he couldn’t satisfy me. He is not romantic, although he has changed some. 2 years ago there was problems with our son’s marriage, they lived with us, and my husband asked me to temporarily move in with our daughter because he couldn’t deal with my bitching. I told him if I left, I wouldn’t come back. He said oh well. I had to fight my way back and I did. Later he said he could let me walk out after 30 years because he has always thought of me as a whore, not a wife, even when we got married. I guit swinging several times because something always was not to his liking. When we have sex, he gets off by talking about it, me saying that I want it from someone else who is bigger and that he doesn’t satisfy me. He would always call me his whore and say I have to have it.I am tired of him saying I have to have it. Cause I don’t as much as he keeps saying. He wants me to have sex with the yard maintenance guy. When a guy who I did have sex with came over to start my generator when my husband wasn’t home(he’s gone for 2 weeks at t time).He said that I would end up having sex with him too. I said no and his response was ya right. So I told him I no longer wanted to have other partners for sex. I didn’t want to watch the videos, he could but not me. I no longer wanted him to call me a whore or talk about the sex with other men while we were in bed. He told me to decide what I wanted, house, car, etc. that he no longer wanted to be married to me, not to contact him or our son until he contacted me from work (they work together out of state at 2 week intervals). Sex with my husband is me giving him oral and I have a vibrator and dildo. I can’t do this anymore. He says I am addicted to sex but I think he is addicted to me having sex with other men. I don’t know a solution to all of this. When we are around family and friends he treats me like a wife. All around he is really good to me. I am desperately seeking some advice…

My husband and I have been married for 12 years! We are both on our second marriage. about a year ago while making love he was whispering in my ear asking me to imagine he was someone else! A Stranger! I remember having the heightened pleasure of our love making just drain from me! He realized it and we sat up and talked about this for a good 2 hours! he took me into his office and had me read real cuckold stories mostly from the wife’s perspective. I felt like I was in a hypnotic state while reading some of these stories yet feeling excited! The next evening he apologized fo upsetting me and he was shocked when I mentioned I might like to try it. I was shocked because he became instantly aroused and hard and even began to masturbate right there as I discussed this. It was about two minutes and he ejaculated all over our dining room rug! I”You really want this don’t you?” I said. he replied “More Than Anything!” It took me a good three months to get the nerve to attempt this. Upon reading the stories I knew what my husbands role is to assist me in getting dressed up and sexy looking! I did just that! Again within minutes he was hard and ejaculated! I began to become extremely wet and excited but nervous. I confided in my best friend and she spoke to her husband about inviting his 26 year old brother to help out! I went over to their home around 7:30PM and no one but Eric was there. Eric is my friends Brother In Law. He felt awkward as well and we talked for about an hour when he leaned toward me and began to kiss me! I was really excited and enjoying this! We spent about 4 hours together and I went home around 12:15AM and my husband had candles lit and no electric lights! The candles led upstairs. When I arrived at our bedroom, there were candles and Champagne and my husband naked and hard. He wanted to know everything in details. As I began to undress and tell him he seemed a bit disturbed but still excited? Now I began to feel guilty when he laid me down and began to orally pleasure me. He basically cleaned me and then we began to make love and he exploded withing what seemed like seconds! We have been a cuckold couple ever since! It works for us and I can imagine it’s not for everyone but it has made our marriage way more exciting on a daily basis!

I have always liked women who are aggressive and i also like to be dominated in a way. Sqeezing my balls makes me feel great but i take care of the money and while i suck other mens cocks and lick up their loads from my wifes pussy it is not being dominated but communicating. I love the feel off women controlling me gently and guiding me with softness and iron will to where they want me. I feel totally loved and protectected by being managed by the weaker and often wiser sex

You assert that ‘so few women wish to cheat on their partner’. On that amazing untutored comment alone your expertise should be discounted. While your critique of the exaggerated characterization you describe is probably correct, what kink is NOT similary overdrawn in fantasy? All the genuine research on MMF threesomes in a female dominated relationship suggests its practice is no more problematic than anything involving another partner. But your conclusion that it as such a toxic behavior (that women commonly come to despise their partner for even wanting it for example) suggests more some personal issue with the author, rather than either what real Psych professional know to be true or the results of decades of research. Other readers - be VERY careful in interpreting this writer’s expertise!

This reads like a bad parody of academic discourse.

There is no genuine research. Asserting that there is in a pompous manner won’t change that reality.

“There is no genuine research.”?!? I hate to be rude, but are you really so completely unknowledgeable on this topic? What of the decades of work on rates of infidelity beginning with Kinsey? You are unfamiliar with Hite, the Januses, Greeley, or any of the dozens of other more recent empirical studies on infidelity incidence? You know of no research on determinants of female respect and love related to rates of divorce? Not knowing that this research exists, and that it is completely inconsistent with your assertions, doesn’t make it unreal, to turn your own phrase.

We have tried different things over the years, swinging, mmf and then cuckolding, finally it has settled down to my wife having sex when and if she wants, i often dont know unless im going down on here. Im probable still the dominant one sexually in our relationship, i would describe her a submissive cuckoldress. Its not easy to accept the reality and the risks, however if you truly love each other and are committed to each other then its just a matter of finding what works for you. The way i see it there are no hard and fast rules apart from the wife enjoying multiple partners and your not..

Thank you very much for sharing that.

my wife has had many men and i usually am involved and often lick her while she gets fucked by a usually younger and bigger cock, i also lick the cum of her after. I am not a sissy or submissive but enjoy pleasing her in this way. She is very sexual and is all over me

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