Dominatrix Stereotype
» Emotional Health
I have no problem with ProDommes. A skilled professional provides a valuable service and sex workers deserve respect.
But the mass media’s use of the imagery of professional dominant in movies and television is a huge hindrance to heterosexual men and women who wish to explore F/m power exchange.
To Women
If your husband expresses a desire to be dominated often it has nothing really to do with the glossy dominatrices of popular culture. His needs are likely subtler, very sincere and deadly serious. And if his notions have been corrupted by so much fantasizing it isn’t that hard to get him to range his expectations in.
To Men
BDSM, S&M, Femdom - none of this is as easy as it might sometimes seem from the mass media. Like any other human relationship it takes mindfulness and effort. And there’s never a short cut to honest useful communication.
Forget about what the folks at the Other World Kingdom seem to be doing and focus on the simple realities of your own life.
