Divorce Your Wife

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In reading the authentic - opposed to the fantasy - blogs I’ve observed the strain that men seeking to introduce power exchange (call it female led relationships or just plain old BDSM) bring their marriages and relationships.

Regardless of what the loving female authority cheerleaders say many women do not want to be the boss, head of the household or Mistress/Wife. They never will.

And I’ve witnessed some men who in offering their wife submission lose her. They wind up in divorce court.

That is sad, yes, but:

If your need to offer submission is so strong that it interferes with your functioning, your peace of mind and getting a good night’s sleep there’s something you have to face up to. You may love your wife or girlfriend but the two of you are incompatible.

For a man who wants to be a woman’s slave to continue to live with a vanilla woman is as futile as it is for a gay man to be a woman’s husband.

Leaving her - however painful it is - is the honorable and sane thing to do. There’s no shame in getting your needs met. And let her get on with the task of finding a man whose desires match hers.

Staying in a miserable marriage is often only the act of a coward.

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being a submissive man myself and married to a vanilla Wife, i don’t believe i should leave Her. i flatter myself by thinking i can serve Her although She is not really dominating me. as a submissive i must respect Her choice. i only want Her to be happy and i am doing my best to serve Her.


I don’t want to be seen as saying that all frustrated submissive men should leave their wives.

But some, like anyone else in a mismatched or dead end marriage should seriously evaluate their shared life and try to decide if they are taking themselves or both partners into what will only be deepening frustration

It is - as always - contingent on the people involved.

I am agreeing with the point. I am a man that craves being dominated more and more everyday. I ahve bought books, cleaned the entire house, bought her corsets and nothing works. All that it does is make me feel she does not care, even though I know she does. I am ready to leave her soon, money is an issue, but once that is solved I am gone so I can look for the woman that will desire my submissive side

i am a sub male who is married not only to a Woman who doesn’t want to be Dominant but after eight months of marriage announced that she doesn’t even like sex. There is a financial issue for me as well. She is the bread winner and that is the only way she is Dominant. i want to leave but after looking for a Dominant Woman for over 10 years and only finding mentally and emotionally Woman who are into the scene i have decided to stay with my wife…for now.

I was in a female Dominated marriage that led to divorce. The marriage became abusive and my efforts in serving and pleasing her became non appreaiative.

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