Am I Crazy?
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No Guilt. No Shame.
If you are just beginning to admit or seek to act out fantasies of female dominance and sadism you may be wondering: Am I crazy or wicked?
Neither.
The current image of sexual orientation is too naοve. Sexual orientation is more than the degree to which we are attracted to the genders. It includes our tendencies to be erotically dominant or submissive; masochistic or sadistic.
A dominant female beginning to explore this part of her sexuality should remember that a man with similar desires is less likely to feel self-doubt. As in other parts of life women shouldn’t let social stereotyping inhibit them.
Pleasing in inflicting pain on men, enjoyment in seeing a man suffer can make a woman feel sick or evil.
Understand that female sadism is a necessary complement to heterosexual male masochism. Some men need a to be made to say “Ouch!” They need pain - of a carefully measured sort - in order to feel fulfilled.
Masochists need sadists. Together they enact performances and rituals that lead to mutual self-fulfillment. Consensual cruelty isn’t a bad thing at all.
As you begin your exploration you’ll discover that dominant women and submissive men are just as likely to be humane and happy as any other class of human being.
You don’t need t look for a cure.
