Taking Control
» Beginnings
Candace is a rare treasure. When she discovered her husband’s desire for her to assume authority in her marriage she realized that the man she loves had a real need.
She always writes lucidly and caringly of the evolution of her marriage. Certain blogs should be read from the beginning. This is a quote from the close of her first entry:
And I also think . There are many things I like, and while I dont like manipulating Tom, he is asking me too, is he not? So perhaps he is right. I can elicit some behavior from him that will be more pleasing to me, and he will be happy to do it. Or so he says. We will find out.
I need to try to find a way to get this to work for me, to fit my style rather than have to adopt a persona that I cant maintain. This will be my next step.









