Always Let Her Have Her Way

“You are in a FLR, however she defines it.”

This is another way of saying that subs should never have desires of their own, or that our needs aren’t important. Pure unrealistic propaganda.

Besides, many women would leave a man who showed no spine. Someone who always agrees with everything is boring.

This is where the rubber really meets the road! This goes back to my belief that the stories you read on the internet are only that..just stories. It is in our DNA for a woman to look to a man for protection. Of course it’s entirely different today than 6M years ago or whatever. So I believe that in our modernized version of civilization MOST women feel safer with a big honkin’ man around. So I agree with RooRoo on this. There has to be a balance in a FLR. I LOVE serving my wife but I’m still a man and if I think she is into something that is not good for her, I’m going to let her know about it. It’s definitely a fine line that a male sub has to walk. (Normal) women don’t want some sniveling little pantywaist man around all the time. If we were all like that then cuckolding would quickly become the norm! So, again, it’s all about communication. You need to know when she needs a “real man” around to hold her and comfort her and be her “protector.” And when she just wants her little slave boy to do her nails. Think about it. Be your own person when you need to and don’t hide behind her skirt 24/7. She’ll throw you away like yesterday’s garbage.

i agree & disagree with the other comments. Macbeth is right to point out that there are basic differences between men & women and that women want & need their partner & slave to be able to do typical husband handyman things like killing a rat or fixing a screen door. They also want a slave who makes a good companion, i.e. can (if permitted) beat them at scrabble or argue over a movie. Finally, they want a “protector” who can represent the household in a zoning dispute or accompany her on an errand to a “bad” neighborhood. However, that said, in a FLM SHE is the Decider. i am my Mistress’s slave and she makes all the basic decisions. my role is to comply and cooperate. Naturally i have the right (usually) to discuss or question a decision, but once a decision is made i NEVER bring it up again. Sometimes i think she is unfair and unfairly defines our FLM, but ultimately i submit to her decisions even when i think they’re unfair or unreasonable. i don’t submit because i choose to; i submit because as a slave i MUST, the way a soldier must submit to orders. Those times when she feels i haven’t complied or submitted fully, i am punished, which is her right. If i ever felt that she didn’t love me or didn’t truly have my interests at heart, i would leave the relationship, if i could. i think the most important thing is for a male sub to be absolutely sure This Woman is the one he wants to be his permanent Mistress & Owner. There should be a trial period for a month or even a year for the two to decide if they want to make a commitment. Owning a slave is a huge commitment for a Domme. My Mistress says it’s like getting a pet. You’re committed for life. Of course, you can always abandon your pet or kick out your slave, but would that be right? Only if they consitently bite or scratch you. A Domme with a sense of honor will keep even a disobedient pet or slave. They all need training and sometimes LOTS of training but if they’re halfway intelligent they’ll all learn obedience (cats of course don’t learn obedience but they do learn not to scratch the furniture — at least when their “owner” is home!)

I get turned on doing things for my wife.She likes it a lot. We have been married for 27 years and really has always been the boss. I have never said “no” to her. She is reasonable, loveing, but the boss. I want to take this a step further. My 4” penis does not give her orgasms. We have sex, only when she wants to about 5 times a year. Sometimes I just masturbate on her breasts. If we do have intercourse my 4” cums in 10 seconds. I want to be her slave and she can have a lover for sex if she wants. Any suggestion on how to help her along to take me?

Have you told her that you want this? If you did what was her response?

Macbeth and kit, if your wives likes you being macho, that’s between you and them, but that’s no reason to go around calling women who can take care of themselves in basic ways “abnormal”. Women are not biologically incapable of using a screwdriver, and holding/comforting people is, in our society, considered nurturing and feminine, not protecting and masculine. I agree that a man who agrees all the time is boring and undesirable, but so is a man who thinks I’m too stupid to set a mousetrap just because I have a vagina.

my wife always makes me to wear panties nd brassiere at home