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Female dominance doesn’t exclude friendship and love. Dominants usually want to like and esteem those that submit to them. Any that don’t are best avoided by anyone without a will to self-destruction. My hope here is to provide evidences of that.
Don’t let the word Femdom put you off. These relationships have many names: female led relationships, loving female authority. My own preference is woman worship.
Some are light on fetish and kink, others part of the larger BDSM culture. For some couples it is bedroom teasing, others a lifestyle.
Many women are under the mistaken impression that dominating a man requires dressing like a dominatrix. Some women do enjoy sexy fetish wear. But only occasionally. Others never don latex or leather.
Free your mind of clichιs: whether for play or as the core of your relationship female dominance and consensual male submission evolves from the needs and tastes of the people involved. You evolve your own style.
The Introducing D/s will hopefully help some of you begin to explore and learn how this - if it does - may work for you and your loved one.
Share Your Stories
Many people don’t keep blogs. Those that do find only so many readers and the readers will see only so many of your entries.
I’ll publish them anonymously or under a pseudonym as you request.
If you do share your life online I’d be grateful for blog and forum entries that I can quote or cite (with a link to the original source).
If you are still looking for someone take a look at Femdom Dating.
Comments
What a wonderfully refreshing outlook! Yes, I am fortunate enough to have a female head of household arrangement, where she knows of my needs, which meet her wants. Yes, I’m spanked on my bare bottom and sent to the corner. Yes, I write punishment lines. Yes, there are times when her discipline requires some public embarassment.
No, she doesn’t wear “dom’ clothing…in fact, she’s always fully clothed when punishing me. No, I’m not a slave who licks her boots, cleans toilets naked, or watches her have sex with other men. No, she doesn’t loan me to others, have friends watch my punishment, or beat me until I bleed.
I wear panties 24/7 to remind me I’m NOT my “own man,” but also because it’s a voluntary way to admit I need guidance. Every time I go to the restroom or change clothes, it’s a reminder.
I submit to being spanked by a woman eight inches and 45 pounds lighter because I need to. She is kind enough to hurt me because she knows I need it.
Thanks for your site. Looking forward to more!
Bottoms up!
Ed
Posted by: Ed | September 21, 2006 2:12 PM
I would like to explore Femdom but got scared by professionals. I’m not into self destruction. I just want to be aloving submissive slave. Im thankful for this forum. can anybody help me.
Posted by: Newbie77755 | April 4, 2008 8:14 PM