You’ve come to dominate your husband, perhaps in a playful way or maybe you’ve taken control of all the basics of the marriage (or partner if not legally wed). It seems to be going OK when he suddenly presents you with an unexpected wish.
Your husband (lover) wants you to have sex with another man.
You are deeply shocked. Maybe you can see it as a spicy fantasy but you don’t want, are repelled by the idea of sex with a stranger, sex outside of your relationship.
In a demented effort to validate his desire he shows you blogs by men who write of being cuckolded by their wives (most often called “Mistress Wife”).
Many of those blogs by supposedly submissive men are fiction. Fake. Phony. The cuckoldry described never actually happened.
Because so few women wish to “cheat” on their partner even with his consent cuckoldry is one of the least acted out femdom fetishes. If you scan many you’ll see the scenario often develops according to the common clichés of the genre:
The Femdom Cuckold Stereotype
- The man describes himself as sexually inadequate.
- Very often he says he has a small penis and that prevents him from satisfying his wife.
- She decides that he doesn’t deserve sex and locks his penis up in a chastity device.
- She makes him were some of her lingerie.
- Eventually he is required to dress up as a girl, most often as a ‘sissymaid.’(Feminization, sissyfication seems a frequent theme.)
- Wife cuckolds husband.
- Her lover - often called a “bull” - meets and mocks husband.
- Husband is required to lick his semen from his wife’s vagina.
- Husband is forced to perform oral sex on bull.
The violent emotional forces at work explain why so many femdom cuckoldry blogs are lies.
Possible Causes of Cuckold Fantasies
- The man desires much deeper humiliation than the wife will allow.
- Some sort of gender dysphoria confuses the man.
- The man is latently bisexual.
Unable to live his desires the man creates a fictional reality in a blog and on forums. Not uncommonly he writes as the cuckolding female.
Some men actually push their wife into doing this. Divorce is often the result. In many cases because the man is so deeply wounded when it really happens.
There really are F/m couples that practice cuckolding successfully. They are rare. And both the man and the woman have considerable emotional maturity and trust.
Many women come to despise the man that asks for this. Some wives leave their husband because knowing he wants this is intolerable.
This is one of those rare cases where a kink does require a counselor.
